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How to build your confidence, essential 2 points

In the last article I talked about why your self-affirmation is low and one habit that is exacerbating it. So, How can we build confidence in ourselves? This time I will tell you about the two mental attitudes absolutely necessary to have confidence. 2 essential ways to build self‐confidence It has two axes. One is to succeed and experience confidence in yourself. The other is to accept yourself as you are. piling your successful experiences As expected, this is important. People who don't have confidence believe that "I am useless" as I wrote in the previous article. And to believe ...

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Concrete method of moving out of peer pressure and acting

2018/10/13  

We succumb to peer pressure easily. Even if it is clear that it is wrong, we humans are often comply with what most human beings agree on. In order to understand this fact and become a human being who can do what is right with your own dignity, it is important to simply have information on this. This time I will tell you how human beings are weak against sync pressures and then how to get out of it. Concrete method of moving out of peer pressure and acting We easily change our opinions by reaction of others. Let me ...

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The reason you can't decide. Two things that disturb decision making.

2018/10/6    

We make many decisions everyday. I will tell you about two things that could make that optimal decision the worst. The reason you can't decide.  There are two things to disturb your decision making.  Anxiety about what surroundings think Obsessing with past that you did so far Anxiety about what surroundings think This is a waste of time and your cognitive cost for the following reasons. a. Nobody can't take responsibility for your decisions b. What other people think are not your business I explain about these each. a, Nobody can't take responsibility for your decisions the surrounding people say whatever ...

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How to make a good decision when you can't make up your mind. 3, Make a decision.

2018/10/4    

Continuation from last time,"How to make a good decision when you can't make up your mind. 2 to have the courage to truncate.”. Last time I wrote about the idea of truncating things that hinder correct decision making. Everyone who has read the article so far should know the purpose of your choice and what is not necessary for the purpose. Still, those who have not read the previous article, please come back after reading ① ②. Make a decision. Well, all that is left is just making a decision since you have come this far. I will inform you of the ...

make a dicision way of thinking

How to make a good decision when you can't make up your mind. 2, to have the courage to truncate.

2018/10/3    

Continuation from last time,"How to make a good decision when you can't make up your mind. 1. clarify your purpose”.Last time I talked about clarifying the purpose of that choice in order to ride the "thinking" base rather than "worrying". Please do not misunderstand as if you really understand it before you don't verbalize it. People who can not use words can not think own. To use words is not such a story that you can use correct English. As for this, speaking becomes long, so if you are interested, please have a look at "People have 2 languages, use ...

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How to make a good decision when you can't make up your mind. 1. clarify your purpose

2018/9/30    

"Should I quit my company?" , "I do not want to go to school, but..." , "Should I try this?", "May I contact him?", like that, there are many things to decide in our life. I will tell you about important steps to make the right decisions in three parts. This is the first step. 1, to clarify your purpose Why are you hesitating to make a decision? Are you suffering from wanting to be in a sentimental mood? Otherwise, let's stop worrying and think about it. Just thinking about "what to do" is never advance your thought, it is ...

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