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Cause of all low self-esteem & only one habit to lower your self esteem

2018/11/3  

"I do not have confidence in myself", "I want to be confidence"..... In fact there are many people who wish they had confidence. Actually, there is a evil habit that people with low self-affirmation have always done and lower their self affirmation feeling more and more. This time I will tell you why you can't feel confident in yourself and one habit to promote it. The reason of your low self-affirmation and bad habit to let down yourself We are with myself from the moment we were born until we die. The reason of your low self-affirmation There is only ...

human relations life lesson mind

Why don't we sometimes rejoice in the happiness of others?

2018/10/18  

"I can't frankly be pleased with the success of close people." "I'm laughing at the failure of familiar people." Don't you sometimes feel like that? We want to rejoice in the happiness of familiar people, but why can't we sometimes do it? I will tell you the reason and what you should do. Why don't we sometimes rejoice in the happiness of others? In what circumstances can't we rejoice in others' happiness In the first place, we are considered to have a self-raising motive, which is a motivation to protect our self-esteem. To put it briefly, we all want to think ...

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Concrete method of moving out of peer pressure and acting

2018/10/13  

We succumb to peer pressure easily. Even if it is clear that it is wrong, we humans are often comply with what most human beings agree on. In order to understand this fact and become a human being who can do what is right with your own dignity, it is important to simply have information on this. This time I will tell you how human beings are weak against sync pressures and then how to get out of it. Concrete method of moving out of peer pressure and acting We easily change our opinions by reaction of others. Let me ...

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"Why don't you understand me?" The reason you aren't understood.

2018/10/12  

"I do my best at work and housework but nobody don't understand it!" "My boyfriend doesn't understand my feelings at all." We often get disappointed and irritate about how others don't understand us. Let's put an end to such feelings today. I will tell you the three ways of thinking necessary to become free from the irritation. Be free from the irritation such as "why don't you understand me?" That others don't understand you is of course. Don't expect. All from the lack of imagination That others don't understand you is of course. First is about the basic attitude. Your ...

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The reason you can't decide. Two things that disturb decision making.

2018/10/6    

We make many decisions everyday. I will tell you about two things that could make that optimal decision the worst. The reason you can't decide.  There are two things to disturb your decision making.  Anxiety about what surroundings think Obsessing with past that you did so far Anxiety about what surroundings think This is a waste of time and your cognitive cost for the following reasons. a. Nobody can't take responsibility for your decisions b. What other people think are not your business I explain about these each. a, Nobody can't take responsibility for your decisions the surrounding people say whatever ...

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